The Living Will -- and Some Questions to Think About Do we pummel Grandma with everything modern medicine has? Maybe so, if she's been alive and vibrant until a day or two ago. Maybe not, if she has advanced dementia and several of her body's organ systems are already failing. It all depends, and Grandma can help us make the right decision by alerting us in advance about her wishes. It's called a "living will" -- and it's usually best set up as an advisory document that gives guidance but not hard-and-fast dictation. Because "it all depends" on the actual circumstances, and it's hard to know that in advance. Here's an excerpt from a "living will" form put together by the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization. The idea of the form is to check off your preferences during a calm and considered time so that your family members won't be left to guess. If my doctors certify that I am in a persistent vegetative state, that is, if I am not conscious and am not aware of myself or my environment or able to interact with others, and there is no reasonable expectation that I will ever regain consciousness: _____ 1. Keep me comfortable and allow natural death to occur. I do not want any medical interventions used to try to extend my life. I do not want to receive nutrition and fluids by tube or other medical means. ((or)) _____ 2. Keep me comfortable and allow natural death to occur. I do not want medical interventions used to try to extend my life. If I am unable to take enough nourishment by mouth, however, I want to receive nutrition and fluids by tube or other medical means. ((or)) _____ 3. Try to extend my life for as long as possible, using all available interventions that in reasonable medical judgment would prevent or delay my death. If I am unable to take enough nourishment by mouth, I want to receive nutrition and fluids by tube or other medical means. The person writing a living will might want to think about some related issues: * Do we surgically implant a feeding tube into the stomach to take over for the swallowing mechanism that doesn't work any more? * Should a respirator be used to take over breathing? * Should CPR be used if my heart stops -- shocking the heart with paddles, and pounding on the chest to squeeze blood from the heart, along with various medications? * Should I be put on a dialysis machine to take over for my kidneys if mine have failed? (Dialysis is a particularly overused treatment for hopelessly ill patients in the last month of life, probably because Medicare covers the full cost of it.) In every one of these particulars, one issue is going to be the prospects for recovering a normal or near normal life if heavy-duty care is provided. That's why my advice is not to place any specific hard-and-fast restrictions on what you want, but just outline general concepts for guidance, and rely on the good sense of your designated decision maker to make the right choices. |